Divorce and money – everything you need to know if you are splitting up

Divorce is rarely a pleasant experience. It can feel as though your entire world is crumbling as friends, keepsakes, and pets are divided.

Determining how your money and assets will be split following a divorce can be a large source of anxiety, both before and after the legal proceedings. It can have a material impact on your financial health, from your mortgage and pension to your savings and investments.

Almost three-fifths (59%) of unhappily married couples in the UK feel as though they can’t get divorced because of their finances, a survey of 1,000 people from Co-Op Legal Services found.

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Meanwhile, 49% of divorcees said they delayed the process due to financial reasons, according to a separate poll of 1,000 people.

The survey found that the only reason for staying married that eclipsed personal finances was concern about the impact a separation might have on their children, as 60% of respondents said this was the primary reason for staying in an unhappy marriage.

Ben Evans, lead family law solicitor at Co-op Legal Services, said: “Getting divorced can be complicated further when the couple has children to consider or if they feel their finances do not allow for them to go their separate ways.

“I would advise anyone considering a divorce to seek support, whether that be with trusted family and friends, or through an independent service.

“There is a wealth of resources available to help those who are considering a separation. People can seek legal advice early to provide peace of mind, or to discuss the implications of divorce and the available options.”

With this in mind, we look at everything you need to know about your money if you are splitting up with your spouse.

Divorce and your mortgage

Divorcing will result in the division of assets between the two former partners, and there is likely to be no more valuable asset involved than the family home.

There are a few different options available to you. The most straightforward may be to sell the property and divide the proceeds between each party. While this can allow for a clear break, it may not be desirable if it causes additional upheaval to any children in the family. What’s more, you are at the mercy of the housing market ‒ you may find that this approach takes a long time if the property struggles to sell.

An alternative will be for one partner to buy out the other, and remain in the property. The property will need to be valued so that it is clear how much needs to be paid in order to purchase the stake, while the lender will also need to be informed so they can determine if they are happy you can afford the repayments on your own.

Lenders may be willing to offer you payment holidays, meaning you do not have to make any repayments for a certain period, while you get your finances sorted following the break up. Remember, this money will still have to be paid eventually, it’s simply being deferred.

It may be that the mortgage lender is not content for you to take the mortgage on alone. If you are determined that one of you remains in the property, it may be that the partner leaving the property continues to make payments towards the mortgage for a set period, until it is suitable for the property to be sold.

Another point worth remembering is that with joint mortgages, both partners are responsible for making those monthly repayments, even if one has moved out of the property. This will remain the case until a divorce settlement has been finalised ‒ failing to make the repayments will have a knock on effect on your credit scores, and it may also mean late payment fees from the mortgage lender.

Divorce and your savings and investments

Savings and investments are the other big assets that will come up during divorce negotiations, and should ‒ in theory at least ‒ be easier to resolve than the property.

After all, you can simply move the money from a savings account owned by one partner into one owned by the other.

Things can be a little more complicated with investments. In some cases you can transfer ownership between partners, but in others you may need to sell the asset and divide the proceeds. It’s important to remember that doing so could incur fees and taxes, such as capital gains tax.

If you have a joint account, it is worth letting the bank know that you are separating as soon as possible to avoid any misuse of the money in the account.

Divorce and your pension

One asset that is all too often ignored when it comes to divorce is the pension, yet it is considered a joint asset, even if one spouse has built it up. According to a study by investment platform interactive investor, almost two-thirds (65%) of divorcees said that pensions held by the respective partners were not discussed during the divorce negotiations.

Partners could lose up to £665,000 by excluding pensions in divorce, assuming an initial pot of £200,000 and a growth rate of 7%, according to analysis by the investment platform.

"Pensions are widely underestimated, and our research reveals that the majority of divorcing couples don’t even discuss them. This oversight leads many ‒ particularly women ‒ to miss out on future income that should have been theirs," says Myron Jobson, senior personal finance analyst at interactive investor.

This can be a significant oversight ‒ it’s very easy for one partner to be left financially vulnerable by missing out on a portion of their partner’s pension pot. Women are more likely to be negatively impacted by pensions being overlooked. Typically, a woman may choose to take the home and will let her husband keep the pension.

Though this may seem like an advantageous split, the partner who took the property rather than the pension has no income to live on when they come to retire.

There are three main options for dividing pensions in the event of a divorce.

• Pension offsetting: This is where the value of a pension pot is offset against the value of another asset, for example with one partner keeping the pension and the other getting a larger stake in the family home.
• Pension sharing. The name is somewhat self-explanatory here, with some ‒ or even all ‒ of one partner’s pension savings moved into an account belonging to the other.
• Attachment orders - where one partner commits to paying a portion of their pension income to the other once they reach retirement. This works slightly differently in Scotland, where it is known as pension earmarking. Recipients north of the border can only receive some of the lump sum available to those taking money from their pension for the first time, but cannot take a portion of the pension income that follows.

What happens to pre-marriage assets in a divorce?

Lawyers are increasingly seeing couples fight over how assets obtained prior to their marriage should be split on divorce. The issue is known as “matrimonialisation” – the process by which non-marital assets become matrimonial assets as a result of married couples typically sharing finances, which are then subject to division on divorce.

The issue is a legal grey area and disputes over whether pre-marital assets should be divided on divorce have more than tripled over the past two years, according to Nockolds, a law firm. By its analysis, there were around 3,200 matrimonialisation-related court claims in 2024/25 – up from 1,200 the previous year and just 800 in 2022/23.

The figures are extrapolated from published judgments in the Family Court and the Family Division of the High Court, based on the assumption that five percent of all claims reach final hearing and that five percent of those hearings are published by The National Archives’ Find Case Law service.

According to Nockolds, the recent surge in court disputes over what assets are subject to division on divorce is partly down to more complex wealth structures being used, such as offshore trusts and family investment companies. These are increasingly blurring the line between what is personal ownership and what are jointly owned marital assets.

Kaja Viknes, senior associate at Nockolds, said: “As asset structures become more sophisticated, so do the arguments. It’s no longer just about ownership, it’s about how, why, and when assets entered the marital sphere.”

Tighter non-dom rules and increased scrutiny of inheritance tax planning have also prompted a wave of inter-spousal asset transfers and relocations, some of which have triggered divorce proceedings, Nockolds has found.

“Transfers made for tax efficiency can backfire in divorce. Without proper structures, they risk being reclassified as marital contributions,” said Viknes.

More couples are choosing pre- and post-nuptial agreements. But this can also lead to disputes over their scope, enforceability, and whether excluded assets were later matrimonialised, she added.

“Outcomes often hinge on how judges interpret intention, conduct, and fairness,” said Viknes. “Where the law stops short of bright-line rules, parties are more willing to test the limits, particularly when millions are at stake and asset histories are complex.”

A ruling in July in the Supreme Court in the case of Standish v Standish – where Mrs Standish sought an equal split in the divorce – involving assets moved from husband to wife to avoid inheritance tax, confirmed not all assets transferred during marriage become matrimonial.

Nockolds expected the ruling to prompt more disputes over whether specific assets, especially properties, business interests, and large gifts, were matrimonialised. Spouses seeking a share will need to show clear evidence of joint use, improvements, or integration into family life.

Viknes said: “The Standish ruling gives greater confidence to those seeking to ring-fence wealth, especially in cases involving inherited assets, business interests, or offshore structures. It reinforces the principle that origin and intention matter more than title alone.”

For pre- and post-nuptial agreements, it’s a “drafting wake-up call”, she added.

The cost of a divorce

The eventual cost of your divorce will come down to how you go about doing it, and how much involvement there is with lawyers.

There is a £593 fee for filing for divorce, as well as a £232 fee if a child arrangement needs to be put in place.

The cost of your divorce can be substantial if you have to go through the courts, due to the lawyer fees, with the Ministry of Justice pointing out that hourly fees can hit as much as £410 an hour depending on your location and the lawyer’s experience.

Going through mediation may be cheaper and faster, while you may also be able to get help from the government worth up to £500 which can go towards mediation costs. You can find a mediator through the Family Mediation Council.

Another alternative is arbitration, where an independent arbiter is appointed to make a decision on the division of assets. This decision is binding on both parties.

Your finances after a divorce

When you are married and have joint accounts with your other half, your finances become intertwined, which can have an impact on your credit score. Separating your finances is therefore important when the marriage comes to an end, which means removing those joint accounts and ensuring that your credit report reflects your change of circumstances.

Similarly, it’s worthwhile to revisit your will. It may be that changes need to be made as a result of the divorce, for example if you no longer want your former partner to receive any of your assets.

The no-fault divorce process

A big change to the divorce process was introduced in 2022 as no-fault divorces became legally implemented, meaning no reason has to be given for divorce.

Before this, one partner would have to register a particular reason for the split, such as adultery or unreasonable behaviour, or else have to go through a period of two to five years of separation first.

With no-fault divorces, splits are quicker and easier - and most of all, cheaper. This is because proceeding with a no-fault divorce will likely mean you need less time with a lawyer.

Under a no-fault divorce, the same advice will apply as they, legally and functionally, have the same implications for your finances as a divorce that cites a reason.

No-fault divorces are not available in Northern Ireland.

When do the most divorces happen?

The majority of lawyers get divorce queries in January. This has led to the first working Monday of the new year being known as Divorce Day.

"Strains on relationships can grow during the festive season and send some marriages or civil partnerships to breaking point,” says Ben Glassman, financial planning partner at wealth management firm Evelyn Partners.

“Over the years solicitors have noticed an increase in enquiries in early January as people who have been struggling with relationship problems start to think about taking decisive action.”